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Surrogates: requirements

What disqualifies you from being a surrogate?

The short answer

Fourteen things disqualify a surrogate candidate at Private Label Surrogacy: age under 21 or over 43; BMI of 33 or higher; no prior full-term pregnancy; not currently parenting a child; a history of recurrent miscarriage or serious pregnancy complications such as severe preeclampsia; three or more C-sections depending on the physician; smoking, vaping or any drug use including cannabis; alcohol abuse history; current antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication; receiving government assistance such as Medicaid, SNAP or Section 8; an unstable home or no support system; a criminal record or pending legal case; unwillingness to discuss termination of a non-viable pregnancy; and residence in a state where compensated surrogacy is not enforceable. Some of these are permanent; several, such as BMI, breastfeeding or a recent birth, are timing issues you can fix.

Written by Mark Silverberg, MD

Executive Director. Physician with 30+ years of practice; reads every surrogate candidate's records.

Medically reviewed by Mark Silverberg, MD

Last updated

Which disqualifications are permanent and which are temporary?

Fourteen things disqualify a surrogate candidate at Private Label Surrogacy. Some are permanent. Several are timing issues that can change. Knowing which is which saves you from ruling yourself out too early, or from going through screening only to stop at the clinic.

A permanent disqualifier is part of your history and will not change, such as a pattern of serious pregnancy complications. A temporary one depends on where you are now: your BMI, a recent birth, breastfeeding, a current medication, your home situation. If yours is temporary, you can reapply when it changes.

Factor Permanent or temporary Who decides What would change the answer
Under 21 Temporary Law and PLS Turning 21
Over 43 Permanent PLS and the clinic Nothing; most partner clinics decline older carriers
BMI of 33 or higher Temporary The clinic A BMI under 33, held for three months
No prior full-term pregnancy Temporary for some PLS, ASRM guidance and law Carrying your own full-term pregnancy
Not currently parenting a child Temporary for some PLS Raising your own child
Recurrent miscarriage or serious pregnancy complications Permanent Physician and clinic Usually nothing; each case is reviewed
Three or more C-sections Usually permanent Physician and clinic Rarely, a clinic approves a third on review
Smoking, vaping or drug use, including cannabis Temporary PLS and the clinic Stopping fully, confirmed by testing
History of alcohol abuse Case by case PLS and the evaluator Reviewed in the psychological evaluation
Current antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication Temporary PLS and the clinic A period off medication with a stable mood, on your prescriber's advice
Government assistance such as Medicaid, SNAP or Section 8 Temporary PLS No longer receiving assistance
Unstable home or no support system Temporary PLS and the evaluator A stable home and people who can help
Criminal record or pending legal case Felony: permanent. Misdemeanor: case by case. Pending case: until resolved. PLS, through the background check Resolution of a pending case; review of a misdemeanor
Unwilling to discuss termination of a non-viable pregnancy Depends on you PLS and the intended parents Nothing PLS can change; it is a personal decision
Living in a state where compensated surrogacy is not enforceable Temporary Law Moving to an accepted state

If you are still deciding whether to apply, start with the full list of surrogate requirements. This page covers the reasons a candidate does not qualify.

What medical history disqualifies a surrogate?

Medical disqualifiers come from one question: can you carry another pregnancy safely? Your records answer it better than anything else.

No prior full-term pregnancy. You must have carried at least one healthy full-term pregnancy, 37 weeks or more. It is the only reliable evidence that your body can carry to term.

Recurrent miscarriage. A single early loss usually does not disqualify you. Recurrent miscarriage, which ASRM defines as two or more losses, does.

Serious pregnancy complications. Severe preeclampsia, for example, can recur and can be dangerous for you. Other complications, such as gestational diabetes that was well controlled, may be acceptable. Each is read in context.

Three or more C-sections. PLS accepts one or two prior C-sections. A third is reviewed by the physician, and most partner clinics decline. Each cesarean scar raises the risk of placenta problems and uterine rupture in the next pregnancy.

Procedures on the uterus. An endometrial ablation or a hysterectomy rules out surrogacy, because the embryo needs a healthy uterine lining. A tubal ligation does not.

Age and BMI. You must be 21 to 43 and have a BMI under 33. Rates of gestational diabetes, preeclampsia and C-section rise above that BMI and after 40. See BMI requirements.

A recent birth or breastfeeding. Neither is a permanent no. Your body needs time to recover between pregnancies. Most clinics want at least 12 months between a C-section and an embryo transfer. Clinics also want you to have finished breastfeeding before fertility medications begin.

What lifestyle factors disqualify a surrogate?

Smoking, vaping and drug use. You must not smoke, vape or use drugs, including cannabis, even where cannabis is legal. Nicotine and other substances affect the pregnancy and the placenta. The clinic may test for nicotine and drugs during medical screening.

Alcohol abuse. A history of alcohol abuse is reviewed in the psychological evaluation. A current problem disqualifies.

Current antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication. PLS requires that you are not currently taking antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication. A treated history is reviewed, not ruled out. Never stop a medication to qualify. Talk with your prescriber first. See antidepressants and surrogacy.

An unstable home or no support system. A surrogate pregnancy has appointments, a transfer trip and a recovery. You need a stable home and people who can help with your children and your household. The independent psychological evaluation looks at this closely.

What financial and legal factors disqualify a surrogate?

Government assistance. You cannot be a surrogate while receiving government assistance such as Medicaid, SNAP or Section 8 housing. Medicaid will not cover a surrogate pregnancy, and compensation can affect your eligibility for benefits. The rule also protects you: surrogacy compensation should not be the thing that keeps your family stable. See government assistance and surrogacy.

A criminal record or pending legal case. PLS runs a background check on every adult in your household. A felony record or a pending case is disqualifying. Misdemeanors are reviewed case by case.

Citizenship. You must be a US citizen or permanent resident.

Unwillingness to discuss termination. You and the intended parents need to have the same view on what happens if a pregnancy is not viable or has a serious problem. You do not have to agree to any particular outcome at application. You do need to be willing to discuss it openly, because it goes into your agreement and into matching.

Where you live. PLS accepts surrogates in states where compensated surrogacy contracts are enforceable. PLS does not currently accept surrogates who live in Nebraska or Louisiana; the list is reviewed by counsel.

Why does PLS review records before the clinic does?

Because some disqualifiers only show up in your records. You may not know that a blood pressure reading in your third trimester was flagged, or what kind of incision your C-section used.

Mark Silverberg, DDS, MD, reads every candidate's prenatal and delivery records and writes a physician medical summary for the intended parents' fertility clinic. That happens during screening, before matching. If your records show a disqualifier, you learn it early, not after you have met a family, signed an agreement and started medications.

The clinic's reproductive endocrinologist still makes the final medical decision. The records review means the clinic is rarely the first to find a problem.

What can you do if you are disqualified today?

First, find out which kind of disqualifier you have. If you are turned down, your case manager will tell you why, plainly.

If it is temporary, plan for it. Bring your BMI under 33 with your own doctor. Finish breastfeeding. Let the right amount of time pass after a delivery. Come off assistance when your situation allows. Wait out a pending legal case. Then reapply. You start with the same five-minute prescreen.

If it is permanent, there may be another way to help. Egg donation has different requirements, and PLS places egg donors as well. You can also ask questions free on SurrogacyHotline.com, PLS's sister site, which usually responds within 24 to 48 hours.

If none of the fourteen factors applies to you, start at See if I qualify.

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Editor notes (B-003): Confirm the list of excluded states with Nancy (cluster C owns state pages). Confirm whether misdemeanors are case by case.

Frequently asked questions

Can you be a surrogate with a criminal record?

Generally no. PLS runs a background check on every adult in the household and a felony record or pending case is disqualifying.

Does a past miscarriage disqualify you?

A single early loss usually does not. Recurrent miscarriage, defined by ASRM as two or more losses, does.

Can you be a surrogate on Medicaid?

No. Medicaid will not cover a surrogate pregnancy and compensation can affect benefit eligibility.

Is a high BMI permanent disqualification?

No. If your BMI drops below 33 and stays there, you can reapply.