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What is gestational surrogacy?

The short answer

Gestational surrogacy is an arrangement in which a woman (the gestational carrier or surrogate) carries and delivers a child for intended parents using an embryo created by in vitro fertilization from the intended parents' or donors' egg and sperm. The surrogate's own egg is never used, so she has no genetic relationship to the child. This is the only form of surrogacy Private Label Surrogacy arranges. It differs from traditional surrogacy, where the surrogate's own egg is fertilized and she is the genetic mother, a form most US agencies and clinics no longer offer. Under the Illinois Gestational Surrogacy Act (2005), compensated gestational surrogacy agreements are enforceable and intended parents can be named as legal parents before birth.

Written by Nancy Block, RN

Founder and Director. Fertility nurse, 17 years at Northwestern Memorial Hospital. Former President, SEEDS.

Medically reviewed by Mark Silverberg, MD

Last updated

How is gestational surrogacy defined?

Gestational surrogacy is an arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for intended parents, using an embryo created by in vitro fertilization (IVF). The egg comes from the intended mother or an egg donor. The sperm comes from the intended father or a sperm donor. The woman who carries the pregnancy is called the gestational surrogate, or in medical settings the gestational carrier.

The defining fact is genetic. The surrogate's own egg is never used, so she has no genetic relationship to the child. She provides the pregnancy: her uterus, her care, nine months of her time. The child's genetics come from the people whose egg and sperm made the embryo.

Three terms you will see used for the same person:

The contract between the two sides is called the gestational carrier agreement. The people who will raise the child are the intended parents.

Gestational vs traditional surrogacy: what is the difference?

In traditional surrogacy, the surrogate's own egg is fertilized, usually by insemination with the intended father's or a donor's sperm. She is the genetic mother of the child she carries. In gestational surrogacy, she is not.

That single difference changes the legal, medical and emotional picture. When the surrogate is the genetic mother, parentage is harder to settle, and the arrangement carries more risk for everyone. For that reason most US agencies and clinics no longer offer traditional surrogacy. PLS arranges gestational surrogacy only.

Gestational surrogacy Traditional surrogacy
Egg source Intended mother or egg donor The surrogate
Genetic link to the surrogate None She is the genetic mother
How pregnancy starts Embryo transfer after IVF, at a fertility clinic Usually insemination
Legal status in Illinois Enforceable under the Illinois Gestational Surrogacy Act (2005) when its requirements are met Not covered by the Act, so parentage is not automatic
Clinic acceptance Standard at US fertility clinics Most US agencies and clinics no longer offer it
Typical cost Intended parents typically budget $150,000 to $200,000 for the whole journey No PLS figure; PLS does not arrange it
PLS offers it Yes No

If you have read about a surrogate "keeping the baby," the case almost always involved traditional surrogacy, where the surrogate was also the genetic mother. In a gestational journey with a compliant agreement, the intended parents are the legal parents.

Who uses gestational surrogacy and why?

Intended parents come to gestational surrogacy for medical reasons and for reasons of family structure. Common situations include:

PLS serves intended parents across the United States and abroad, including single parents, married and unmarried couples, and LGBTQ+ parents. Your reproductive endocrinologist confirms the medical reason. PLS does not require one to start a consultation, but your clinic will document why a gestational carrier is needed.

Who is involved: parents, surrogate, clinic, attorneys, escrow, agency

Six parties take part in a gestational surrogacy journey. Each has a separate job.

PLS does not employ in-house attorneys, psychologists or escrow staff. It refers you to independent licensed professionals on purpose, so that each one works for the person they were hired to protect. You fund an independent escrow account with $10,000 at match and the balance before medications start, and you may choose your own escrow company. Read how independent escrow protects both sides.

For how these parties work together stage by stage, see how the surrogacy process works.

Is gestational surrogacy legal in the United States?

There is no single federal surrogacy law. Each state sets its own rules, and they differ. Some states have statutes that make compensated gestational surrogacy agreements enforceable and allow parentage to be established before birth. Others handle it through court decisions, and a few restrict it.

Illinois is one of the clearest states. Under the Illinois Gestational Surrogacy Act (2005), compensated gestational surrogacy agreements are enforceable and intended parents can be named as legal parents before birth, when the Act's requirements are met. The Equality for Every Family Act, signed December 2025, removed the requirement that at least one intended parent be genetically related to the child and requires independent counsel for both sides. Statute citation and details reviewed by counsel.

Michigan legalized compensated surrogacy in April 2025. New York licenses surrogacy agencies; PLS is applying. Reviewed by counsel.

PLS recruits surrogates in surrogacy-friendly US states. The law of the state where the surrogate lives and delivers generally governs the journey, so your attorney works in her state.

International parents face one more layer: the baby's travel documents and home-country citizenship. A federal executive order dated August 6, 2026, on citizenship for children born through compensated surrogacy to two non-citizen parents is under litigation. Status as of [date], reviewed by counsel.

What does a gestational surrogate have to qualify for?

At PLS a surrogate must be:

Meeting the criteria is the start. Screening has seven steps: application, interview, a records review by Mark Silverberg, DDS, MD, a background check, an insurance review, a psychological evaluation by an independent licensed professional, and the fertility clinic's own medical screening after match.

Dr. Silverberg reads every candidate's prenatal and delivery records and writes a physician medical summary that goes to the intended parents' fertility clinic. The agency agreement defines this as review by a board-certified physician. The clinic's screening follows ASRM guidance for gestational carriers. See how a surrogate is medically screened.

What does gestational surrogacy cost?

Intended parents typically budget $150,000 to $200,000 for the whole journey. The money goes to several parties:

Before clinic fees and any new insurance policy, the itemized total is about $112,000 to $127,000. Surrogate compensation and third-party costs are paid through independent escrow, so you can see every payment.

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Frequently asked questions

Is a gestational surrogate the baby's biological mother?

No. The embryo comes from the intended parents' or donors' egg and sperm; the gestational surrogate contributes no genetic material.

Does Private Label Surrogacy arrange traditional surrogacy?

No. PLS arranges gestational surrogacy only, in line with ASRM practice guidance and Illinois law.

What are the requirements to be a gestational surrogate?

At PLS: age 21 to 43, a US citizen or permanent resident, BMI under 33, at least one healthy full-term pregnancy and currently parenting, a non-smoker with a stable home.

Is gestational surrogacy legal in Illinois?

Yes. The Illinois Gestational Surrogacy Act (2005) makes compensated gestational surrogacy agreements enforceable and allows pre-birth parentage.