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How do international parents pay for US surrogacy, and how is the money protected?

The short answer

International parents pay for US surrogacy in US dollars by international wire to an independent licensed escrow agent, not to the agency. With PLS, parents fund $10,000 at match and the balance of the surrogate's compensation package before medications start; the escrow agent disburses to the surrogate and vendors on the schedule in the surrogacy agreement and issues a ledger parents can give to courts at home. Parents may choose their own escrow company. Exchange-rate movement is the parents' risk, so many families convert in two or three tranches. PLS has always used independent escrow; the 2025 to 2026 collapses of Surro Connections and the SEAM escrow fund ($16 million or more) show why the agency should never hold your money.

Written by Jan Telman Berman

Global Surrogacy Coordinator. 18+ years managing national and international cycles.

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Why does PLS refuse to hold your funds?

Status as of [date], reviewed by counsel.

Because an agency that holds your money can lose it, spend it, or take it down with it if the agency fails. Private Label Surrogacy (PLS) has never held client funds for the surrogate or third-party services. Since 2017, every family has paid those amounts to an independent licensed escrow agent, and you may choose your own escrow company.

This is a structural decision, not a promise. PLS does not employ in-house attorneys, psychologists or escrow, and it refers to independent licensed professionals on purpose. Each of them answers to the person they protect. An escrow agent that is independent of the agency answers to the agreement: it pays the surrogate and vendors on the schedule you and the surrogate signed, and it reports to you.

For international parents this matters twice over. You are wiring a large sum to a country where you do not live, to people you have met by video. Independent escrow means your money sits with a licensed third party under a written agreement, and the paper trail it produces is one you can take to a court at home.

PLS refers you to independent licensed escrow agents if you want a referral. It has no ownership or fee interest in any of them.

How does an independent escrow account work?

An escrow account is held by a licensed escrow agent for one journey. Money goes in from you, and comes out only as the gestational carrier agreement allows.

  1. You choose the escrow company, from PLS's referrals or on your own, as long as it is independent and licensed.
  2. The escrow agreement sets out the agent's fees, how disbursements are approved, and what happens to unused funds.
  3. You fund the account at match and before medications start.
  4. The agent pays the surrogate's compensation and expense reimbursements, the attorneys, the psychologist and other third-party providers, on the schedule in the agreement.
  5. The agent reports every disbursement to you in a ledger.
  6. At the end of the journey, the agent returns any unused balance to you, less fees set out in the escrow agreement.

PLS's own program fee is paid to PLS, and IVF and clinic fees are paid directly to your clinic. Neither goes through escrow.

When is each amount due, and in what currency?

Every amount is due in US dollars. Escrow accounts are held in US dollars, and your bank converts at the time of the wire.

Milestone Amount or range Payee Currency Typical wire lead time
Signing with PLS $15,000 (program fee: confirm current schedule) PLS USD Ask your bank [typical days to confirm]
Match $10,000 Independent escrow agent USD Ask your bank [typical days to confirm]
Surrogate acceptance $15,000 (program fee: confirm current schedule) PLS USD Ask your bank
Before medications start Balance of the surrogate's compensation package and third-party costs (typical compensation package roughly $68,000 to $78,000; confirm with Nancy) Independent escrow agent USD Ask your bank [typical days to confirm]
Third-party costs $15,300 to $29,000, paid from escrow Attorneys, escrow, psychologist, background checks, insurance review, travel, monitoring USD Paid by the escrow agent
Medical clearance $5,000 (program fee: confirm current schedule) PLS USD Ask your bank
Surrogate health policy, if needed $5,000 to $40,000 [confirm payee and whether paid through escrow] USD [confirm]
IVF and clinic fees Set by your clinic Your fertility clinic USD Set by your clinic

Across the whole journey, intended parents typically budget $150,000 to $200,000. See the full cost of surrogacy for each line, and LGBTQ surrogacy costs for two-father and single-parent budgets.

Nothing medical starts until the agreement is signed and escrow is funded. That rule protects you as much as the surrogate: you never pay for a cycle without a signed agreement behind it.

How do you manage exchange-rate risk?

Exchange-rate movement is your risk, not the escrow agent's and not PLS's. If your home currency weakens against the dollar between signing and funding, the journey costs more in your currency.

Three practical approaches:

The escrow account itself stays in US dollars. You cannot hold it in euros, pounds or yuan.

What does a wire from your country require?

An international wire to escrow needs the escrow agent's wiring instructions, your bank's international transfer form and, often, documents your bank asks for. What your bank asks for varies by country and by bank, so start early.

Before your first wire:

PLS's Global Surrogacy Coordinator, Jan Telman Berman, has managed national and international cycles for more than 18 years and will walk you through the calendar of payments. Your bank and the escrow agent handle the transfer itself.

What statements will you receive, and who else can see them?

The escrow agent issues a ledger: every deposit, every disbursement, its date, payee and purpose. The ledger is yours.

International parents use it at home. The ledger is routinely used in parental order and recognition proceedings, including in the UK and Israel. In the UK, for example, the court reviews payments made to the surrogate abroad, and a complete ledger is how your solicitor shows them. See US surrogacy for UK parents.

[Confirm with escrow agents which other parties, such as PLS or the surrogate, receive copies of statements or notices of disbursement.]

What went wrong at SEAM and Surro Connections, and how escrow prevents it

In late 2025, the Surro Connections agency collapsed, and a federal indictment followed in August 2026. The SEAM escrow fund also collapsed, with more than $16 million involved. In 2025 and 2026, PLS took on three surrogates, pro bono, who were stranded when their agencies failed.

The lesson is not that escrow is risky. It is that escrow only protects you when it is truly independent: licensed, separate from the agency, with its own agreement with you, and reporting to you directly. Before you fund any account, ask:

PLS has always used independent licensed escrow. Read more on how escrow works at PLS.

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Frequently asked questions

Can we pay in euros, pounds or yuan?

Escrow accounts are held in US dollars. Your bank converts at the time of the wire; some families use a currency broker for better rates.

Who chooses the escrow company?

You may. PLS refers to independent licensed escrow agents and has no ownership or fee interest in any of them.

What happens to unused funds?

The escrow agent returns the balance to you at the end of the journey, less fees set out in the escrow agreement.

Can the UK or Israeli court see the escrow ledger?

Yes. The ledger is yours and is routinely used in parental order and recognition proceedings.