Hard questions · Intended parents
Can I choose my surrogate?
The short answer
Yes, and she chooses you. Nancy presents one candidate at a time whose screening is complete and whose records Dr. Silverberg has reviewed. You read her profile, meet by video, and both sides decide. You can decline without penalty. We present one at a time because parallel "shopping" wastes candidates and because the first screened match is usually the right one.
Written by Nancy Block, RN
Founder and Director. Fertility nurse, 17 years at Northwestern Memorial Hospital. Former President, SEEDS.
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